The months went by and he didn’t find the peace that he was expecting to find. The break up was painful, and it took him a long time to come to terms with the fact that he had ended the relationship.
Peter thought that he would be happier as a single guy, free to do whatever he wanted, whenever he wanted. Consequently, he decided to break up with Caitlin. Both of them had become mutually emotionally dependent, and he wound up feeling very suffocated by the relationship. The reason behind the breakup, well, multiple breakups, was that he couldn’t find the balance between feeling independent and being in a relationship. He and his ex-girlfriend, Caitlin, had broken up three years ago. I was working with Peter a few days ago, who had come to me for help with getting his ex back. Why do I still love my ex partner?Īs I said in introduction to this article, the love you feel for someone is not going to disappear overnight, especially if you experienced a powerful love story.
I will go over what to do if you want to heal from the relationship breakup, and then I will explain how to go about getting back together with an ex that you are still in love with. I wanted to write this article for you today to help you navigate through this challenging situation and to define a concrete action plan that can help you reach your goal. If you still want to get back together with your ex, we still need to explore tools for bouncing back from the break up, but then we need to explore how to win this person back and create a relationship that is stronger than ever before. If you no longer want to pursue a relationship with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, then that’s one thing and we need to explore tools for healing from the break up. The important thing to do is to think about where these feelings are coming from and to determine what you want to do about it.
Love is a complex emotion that takes time to develop, but it also takes a lot of time for it to disappear.
Whether are you two broke up six months ago or five years ago, you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself for still having feelings for your ex. I have worked with people still love their exes after years of being apart. I work with a lot of people who ask me, “Is it normal to still love my ex even though so much time has already passed since the breakup?” It can be extremely frustrating, especially if you are still suffering from a break up. The love you feel for someone does not disappear into thin air just because you broke up.